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I'm so small and this problem is so big

Lucy Ball, BAHons • Jun 13, 2022

Hello to all you CCTP Graduates! I’m writing from the UK in a lush green June. The dragonfly larvae are crawling from my garden pond to make their transformation and I’m full of joy. 

 

But despair is also something I am familiar with. Around 4 years ago, I had a particularly bad dose of despair precipitated by a scientific report on the steep demise of global insect populations. This report was swiftly followed by further reports on the march of climate change and biodiversity collapse.

 

Healthy ecosystems bring me joy, degraded ones make me sad. But what can I do about the systemic issue of climate change and biodiversity collapse? The problem is so big and I’m so small! Despair in the face of my impotence was my response. With hindsight the despair was better than cutting off the tough feelings that I’d had for years as I watched my donations to environmental charities and my efforts to recycle make seemingly no dent.

 

Then, one day in our GISC supervision group, we started playing with the polarity of grandiosity and insignificance. Our group had a well-developed capacity to express our impotence in the face of big systemic problems. So we tried something less-developed. Joe Melnick and Carol Brockmon had us all experiment with acting as grandiose as we could in front of the group. When it was my turn, I assumed a superhero pose and declared with some gusto and some embarrassment  ‘ONLY I CAN SOLVE THE PROBLEM OF CLIMATE CHANGE AND BIODIVERSITY COLLAPSE!’ My body tingled with energy right down to my fingertips just before I collapsed into giggles.

 

Something shifted in me in the days after that. The despair that I could do nothing became a tolerable sadness that I could not do everything. And there, between the polarities of insignificance and grandiosity, I found agency to do something. I started by gathering some folk to dig a pond.

 

Warmly,


Lucy Ball

 

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By lfitzpatrick 19 Dec, 2023
Dear Friends, Thank you for your ongoing support of GISC and for being such a vital part of who we are as a global learning community. This year, I have some important and exciting news to share. For many months, the GISC Board of Directors and I have worked together to develop a strategic vision to take GISC into the future. Our aim is for GISC to be the place that brings diverse individuals together, in community, online and in accessible in-person environments, for meaningful, transformative learning, so they can multiply their impact for larger systems change. We know this is achieved through relevant programming, experiences that are deep and build mastery over time, a focus on diversity, inclusion, and belonging – and by continuing to evolve as an organization. To this end, last month, the board made the strategic decision to put the Nevis Meetinghouse in Wellfleet up for sale and move our center of operations to Boston, Massachusetts. After the trials of Covid and the societal shifts we’ve seen since, it’s become clear that our greatest opportunities lie off-Cape, online, and in new places in the US and abroad. Making this decision is the best way we know to honor the legacy of our founders, Edwin and Sonia Nevis, and expand our important mission. While the building in Wellfleet has been a cherished physical home to many of us, it’s been the profound insights and lifelong relationships created there and elsewhere that are the most valuable treasure we share. Together, over many years, we’ve formed and re-formed community to hold our greatest hopes and aspirations as humans and professionals. “The Center” is indeed a community – it is you, our participants, members, supporters, faculty, and friends – not a physical space. This change will allow for greater accessibility and open up new opportunities for collaboration and partnerships in education, healthcare, and the helping professions. It will better enable thought leadership and our commitment to equity, diversity, and inclusion, expanding our impact in the world. While we understand that this news may bring sadness to some, we hope you will also join in our excitement for new ways of becoming all we can be – with all the creativity and liveliness that change can bring – while holding onto the essence of who we are and what makes GISC special. Please be a part of making this new vision a reality with your continued support and give generously to GISC this year. Your gift of $1,000 will place you in our Founders Circle, and every unrestricted gift of $125 or more includes a GISC membership. Our members are entitled to special perks and program discounts and will receive an invitation to our Virtual Town Hall to learn more and share thoughts on our vision for GISC. We also welcome gifts directed to our Scholarship Fund, Clinical Initiatives, DEIB work, Faculty Development – or your own area of interest.
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By Laurie Fitzpatrick 19 Dec, 2022
Dear Friends, We at GISC are grateful for you, our donors, members, and participants, for playing such a vital role in bringing GISC’s powerful Gestalt approach to so many, “transforming the way we live and work in the world.” Our community is the heart and soul of this organization, and we thank you. GISC is better poised than ever to reach more people and to make the kind of impact so needed in the world today. We’re taking our Gestalt Leadership Development training into more organizations and creating a clinical initiative to develop and promote new offerings for psychotherapists. We’re working to become more accessible, experimenting with delivery at central in-city locations and by optimizing our online presence. And we’re actively educating ourselves as a community on issues of diversity, equity, and inclusion, to grow as an organization and be a place where everyone called to this work feels they belong. The brilliance and legacy of GISC founders Sonia March Nevis and Edwin Nevis equipped us well to bring our own solutions to the problems individuals and organizations face today, and still, we must continue to develop ourselves and prepare new generations of coaches, leaders, and practitioners. As luminaries in the Gestalt world age, retire, or, sadly, pass away, we’re reminded of the imperative to carry this legacy forward, person to person. As 2022 draws to a close, we’d like to ask for your continued help in bringing GISC’s important work into the world. Your gift will support these and other initiatives: Faculty Development – to support our faculty community and offer advanced training. Equity, Diversity, Inclusion, and Belonging – to move GISC and those we train to a place of awareness, equity, and competence for living in a diverse and multicultural world. Scholarship Fund – so we can continue to provide scholarship assistance to those who need it. Clinical Initiative – to develop new offerings for mental health professionals. Virtual Delivery – to bring our rich GISC experiences to wider audiences online. Please give today to support our work and expand our global community. You can donate online by clicking the button below or by check via mail, directing your gift to your favorite initiative or to the general fund. Again, this year, we invite you to join our Founders’ Circle with your gift of $1,000 or more. All contributions of $125 or more will entitle you to a free GISC membership for 2023.
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If the past year has demanded anything of us, it has been to draw on our inner resources – and one another – to reimagine the ways we live and work in the world. To achieve things we don’t yet know are possible. “This might not work,” one of my favorite lines by creativity expert Seth Godin, speaks to the way every important undertaking is a leap of faith, as we will only discover what works by trying new things. I am so proud of GISC’s faculty, board, staff, and participants, as we have worked to create something incredibly important and worthwhile this year – reaching outside of comfort zones to offer programs in new ways, bringing our experiential programs online, beginning to explore biases we didn’t know we held, and so much more – all while contending personally and professionally with a global pandemic. Many of us – leaders, therapists, coaches, consultants – have moved through our own fears and resistances and blind-spots to look at what is, what else might be possible, and to help bring others along their own paths of learning. It has been a joy to see program participants join strangers from around the world on two-dimensional screens, yet somehow forge intimacies and embody learning none of us were sure was possible. They have walked away from signature programs we thought could only be delivered in person saying things like: “It's been life changing” “What stands out for me in this program is the good-heartedness.” “I experience the organisation as one that lives and promotes its values, which seems rare these days!” “…Each program I attend attracts people willing to engage in the material, share in a meaningful and intimate way, and show up from around the world. It makes my world a better place.” GISC, like the individuals in our community, is doing some reimagining of its own. How might we stand on the fertile ground our founders laid and best equip today’s generation of learners to bring more meaning and competence to their own lives and the lives of those they touch? How can we be more inclusive and just? And, we have developed some new initiatives to address these questions. Please support GISC with your gift this year and be a part of reimagining our future, expanding upon all that we’ve learned to become something more. Your gift will support: New Programming to enhance skills and ways of being that are relevant to today’s leaders and practitioners Diversity Equity Inclusion & Belonging – so that GISC is a place where everyone feels they belong and are supported to live, work, and promote change in our multicultural society Virtual Initiative – expanding accessibility and our ability to bring GISC’s brand of powerful, safe, highly experiential programming online Scholarship Fund – supporting nonprofit leaders, clinical practitioners, and participants from underrepresented communities Faculty Development – To foster thought-leadership and equip our next generation of faculty to bring the best of Gestalt theory and practice into the future 
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